Be Better, not Bitter

Have you ever realized that you rely on other people for all of your happiness? For instance, if (this xyz, which may be everyone or our peers), I would not be happy. The truth is, we can't alter other people, so why bother relying on or projecting our happiness onto them? I have to admit that expectation kills. We often wish for other people to improve, change, and the list goes on.

Let our pain make us stronger, not bitter. I always believe that there is a reason why we are in the circumstance, condition, family, difficulty, or relationship that we are in.

I wrote this because, me myself, used to be the person who has bitterness in life, prolly still I am right now?! I have no idea lol! but the thing is, nonetheless I used this condition of mine, to heal, learn, dig deeper, and know about myself, love myself, and get to know about boundaries even more, things that I would never think way back before, because I felt that I’m used to deliberately myself drown into worldly things, oftentimes try to distract even forget about my own thoughts or sacrifice my own feelings.

We hurt ourselves because we obsess about the end our journeys. Focus on staying the moment, on being grateful for where you are today.

⎯S. McNutt - 8x Bestselling Author - Write & Speak about Boundaries, Interpersonal Relationships, Deep Healing, Aligning with your Passions, and Self-Love.

Set the boundaries!